Wednesday, October 23, 2013

A Retrospection


My friends of Messiah Lutheran Church,


These will be my last few weeks with you. There will be many people I will miss, and experiences that I will cherish. I wanted to offer a few words of specific thanks and gratitude for the 15 years we’ve had together, with a little retrospection. There are so many more thanks, events and memories, but to name just a few… (I will mark my “thanks” in bold.)


1998 – The beginning: late in January, about 4 months after leaving my first call in Pennsylvania, I met Pr. Joe Dillon at a retreat in Seabeck. He said with his wink and sly smile, “You’ll be hearing from me.” In February, I started at MLC as “pulpit supply,” preaching on the 4th Commandment, “Honor your parents.” I was reading Called to Care; Biblical Images of Social Ministry. (Directions to Messiah are penciled in on the back cover.) In it Dr. Robert Kysar suggests that each congregation should keep social outreach as a part of its core response to the Gospel, and as its evangelism, telling people—not only what we believe, but also—what we do. Thank you, Messiah, for your passion for outreach, your love and care for people through the quilters & kit-makers, the food bank and community suppers, Christmas Hampers! the mission trips, community fund…on and on!

Thank you, Pr. Joe Dillon! You are an example of leading by loving! Pr. Steve Olson: you were an amazing partner at MLC. I appreciated your advice, messages, and your continued encouragement all the way through. Even now, while serving at Faith in Shelton, I’ve appreciated your helpful advice and encouragement every time we’ve talked!

Thank you, Pr. Emeritus Eric & Svava Sigmar, for inviting Pauline and me into your home for dinner. You both welcomed us so generously! I will miss my quiet time in the Sigmar Prayer Chapel where I often talk to God and to Pr. Eric. Also, thank you, Carol Messecar! We shared a tiny office, visitation responsibilities, and laughter.

In 1999 – I was called as your second Associate Pastor, focusing on stewardship, visitation and spiritual gifts development. I acted in my first Messiah Players Production, Children of Eden. Thank you, Erwin Rosin, Laura Kniss, Jack Lippard, and others for teaching me the importance of doing something “completely different” within ministry. I co-lead Monday Night Bible Study with Ron Douglas. Eventually, that class merged with the ongoing Thursday morning Bible Study. Thank you to both Ron and Margaret. You have always, always provided me with words of support and encouragement.

In 2000 – I joined the Lutheran Campus Ministry Council at the UW. At MLC we began including occasional healing services during our Sunday worship. We developed a new mission statement and Messiah’s mission slogan, “Gather, Grow, Glorify, & Go!” Krista Sickert-Bush resigned as our Youth Director, and Rachel Ashley was hired in her place. (Pauline and I are thankful for our ongoing friendship with Krista and her husband, Bill. They are our boys’ godparents.) I trained to be a Stephen Leader. Thank you to my dear Stephen Ministers, past and present. Special thanks to Stephen Leaders, Therese Moore, Doreen Shaver, and Pat Averill who’ve helped me all along in this critical ministry.

In 2001 – Our stewardship theme was a challenge to “Grow Another Step.” Lois Bradford began the Prayer Shawl Ministry. Traci Vatne returned as MLC’s youth director to replace Rachel. Traci, thank you for your amazing leadership, loving relationships, and strong scholarship. MLC is so very blessed by your ministry! We had started a small worship service at Parkside West which met twice a month for a number of years. After the attacks of September 11, we saw a dramatic increase in the level of giving to community needs…which has never decreased since then! Thank you, generous and consistent givers!

In 2002 – Mid-year, Pr. Joe Dillon received his call to All Saints Lutheran Church in Phoenix, AZ. Pr. While Bill Messecar served as Congregational President, Pr. Steve and I both offered our resignations, but there was conversation about re-calling us as Co-Pastors. What would that look like? Thank you, Becky Miller, Dick Schmidt, Bill Messecar, Sandi Wollum, Ken Seng (I miss you!), Mike Tipton, Cal Hunziker, Will Lathrop, Ransom Alexander, and now, Paul Decker. Every single one of you were/are amazing Congregational Presidents who served exactly when we needed your specific gifts over these past 15 years!

In 2003 – Pr. Steve Olson and I were called as Co-Pastors of Messiah Lutheran. Kenny’s Kafe was going strong! The year-long ministry and stewardship theme was: “One-On-One: Building the Family of God.” Kendra Mohn served as our pastoral intern. We developed our Communion Deacon program to take the elements to peoples’ homes. We re-started conversations about a construction project.

In 2004 – We had simultaneous worship at both 8:30 and 11:00 AM hours, slightly staggered, so that the pastors could switch services about mid-way through, bringing the same sermon to all four worship settings. The “Master Plan”—including the initiatives for new construction—was developed and spear-headed by Jonathan Kniss and Teresa Hutchens. Lydia Wittman was our intern pastor. Carol Messecar retired as our AIM in Lay Visitation. Thank you, Carol for continuing to have a heart for visiting and small groups! Our annual month-long fall stewardship theme was “O Sing Jubilee to the Lord!” The end of December, we missed Christmas Eve services so that Pauline and I could retrieve and welcome McClellan Guillermo (“Mac”) into our family. Thank you, MLC, for embracing both of our boys!

In 2005 – Pastor Steve Olson accepted a call to Faith Lutheran in Shelton, WA, and I was called as your Senior Pastor. Katie Bombardi was our intern pastor. Pastor Don Melchert came on board, first as an “interim” and then as our Pastor of Visitation. Thank you, Pr. Don, for providing a critical ministry, and being there as mentor for me and all the staff and congregation! Karin Ode began as our Director of Parish Ministries, including her work in the Christian education office. Karin, thank you for picking up so many tasks and supporting all of us with your dedication! The October-November stewardship theme was “Lord, Make Us Instruments.”

In 2006 – We called Pr. Jon Olson to be our Associate. Pr. Jon, you reminded me to take more time for healthy spiritual and family life. You introduced me to the wider spectrum of non-mainline pastors and writers, who have continued to move and inspire me. Thank you. We began the “Building to Gather” Capital Campaign project to dramatically increase the size of our narthex (now called the “Gathering Space”) and Galli Hall. The ALPHA Course was introduced. Patrice Taylor was hired as our Director of Contemporary Music. Patrice, thank you; you took us with you on your own journey to a new level of worship and praise!

In 2007 – Most of the staff moved into their newly renovated office spaces, and we were gearing up for the major renovations. Pr. Jon and I preached a long sermon series taking up the “Old Testament Challenge.” Trevan Douglas, our second son, was born in Salt Lake City. After Deuane Kuenzi’s retirement, Fred McIlroy began as our Director of Traditional Music and Worship.

In 2008 – The Gathering Space, the new Sigmar Prayer Chapel, kitchen , and expanded Galli Hall were all completed. AN AMAZING PROJECT and learning experience for me! I was given a sabbatical to study and take up art, as well as begin practicing healthier life habits. Thank you, MLC, for giving your pastors sabbaticals!

In 2009 – in June, the congregation voted to extend a lease to Gateway School. While a bumpy ride would commence, I continue to be grateful for the families who joined us and became active supporters through the school. We have missed the daily noise, activity, and huge boost to children’s ministry that occurred by having children in our building. Community Suppers began serving Sunday meals every Sunday! Thank you, Laura and the Kniss family, Valarie Burkhauser, and Tricia Bradley. Thank you, dedicated volunteers! Simply amazing! I became involved with the Auburn Pastors’ Fellowship Group. I am grateful to have been a part of a unique, powerful, inspiring group of pastors! Auburn has no idea what spiritual awakening is possible, and just on the edge of breaking forth, led by its pastors united in support and mission. With Fred leaving, Patrice was hired as our Director of Music Ministries. Penny Cramer, thank you for directing the Messiah Chorale. You make beautifully rehearsed, thoughtful and expressive music through our choir!

In 2010 – the 9:30 Worship Hour began in January. Thank you to all the paid and volunteer leaders in our music and worship ministry! You inspire us every week! Thank you, also to Jamie Henderson for chairing the Worship and Music Team with consistent planning and communication. Pr. Jon Olson received a call to serve on Kwajalein Island in the Marshalls. Pr. Don Melchert moved to Montana. (oof.) The Steering Committee was formed and chaired by Dwight VanVleet in response to the 2009 ELCA Churchwide Assembly’s decisions in regard to human sexuality. It was a long, needful, and well done study that our Synod has used as an example for other congregations. Thank you for your subtle, significant leadership in this and other venues, Dwight. I will miss you; Pauline and I love your family. Our annual fall stewardship theme was “Lifted by Mission.” Nic Steltzer began as our new organist. One of the more delightful and argumentative (in a good way) ministries is the Art Ministry Team who have carefully and slowly been adding thoughtful and creative art to our building to enhance its beauty, but also to tell our story – what MLC does. Thank you!

In 2011 – The Constitution Review Committee began its work, chaired by Joshua Luebke, who has—in many ways—become our expert on rules and good order! Thank you for your dedication and humor, Josh! Pr. Jim Rismiller (Pr. Jon Olson’s father-in-law) began serving as our Pastor of Visitation in the early part of the year, and Pr. Eric Wooldridge was called as our Associate in January of 2011. Pr. Eric, I am deeply grateful for your calm, thoughtful responses, your skills in theology, teaching and preaching, your counseling with staff and members. I love your family, and will greatly miss serving in the same congregation. I am glad to be in ministry with you! Pr. Jim, you continued the role that is so valuable as our Visitation Pastor, keeping us connected to members, being there at critical times, providing love and thoughtful advice. The Lease Management Team was formed. Our fall stewardship theme was: “Expect a Miracle!”

In 2012 –Auburn Gateway School had to close during the school year. I am grateful to leadership and good lawyers who helped us through a bad situation that could have been worse. I am grateful for hard lessons learned, which has not given itself to cynicism, or recalcitrant retreatism. The “Messiah Makes a Difference” ministry campaign (and stewardship theme) was launched, with the hope of re-invigorating Ministry Teams, improving communication, and enhancing our service and evangelism to the Auburn community. Thank you, Leita Earl, for taking these first steps toward long-range planning and vision for MLC! Partrice Taylor stepped down as Director of worship, and Luke Stromberg resigned as our 9:30 pianist; remaining staff and volunteers stepped up as volunteers. The staff took voluntary pay cuts to meet our financial shortfall. We began mid-week Advent worship services. The Safe Place Task Force began its work. Financial Peace University made its debut, thanks to Adam and Cheryl DeBruler. The School Feasibility Group was commissioned by the council to determine whether MLC could start a new preschool/kindergarten. I will not forget to thank the Funeral Ministry leaders and volunteers, both those who have recently died, and those who carry on, and have joined this amazing ministry that has touched people’s lives within and beyond Messiah’s congregation.

Now, in 2013Three recent staff additions for which I am especially grateful and glad I was able to take part include: First, Katie Walda, who began as our organist, bell choir director, and contemporary pianist. What a complement to our music and worship staff and volunteers! What energy and talent! Treasure her, MLC! Second, Tia Monsen, who keeps all things Worship and Music organized and flowing through the office, and Eric Ode’s talent at 9:30 piano, the ongoing planning and leadership of Jan Erie, Kristi Perko, Elisa Holman, Chris Englehart, etc. Third, Betty McNeely began serving as our Business Manager, and Erv Steinle continues as the Facilties Manager. Betty has brought great skill, experience, connections, as well as a deep understanding of how “business” and the wider Christian stewardship all fit together.  

Messiah Lutheran Church, we have been through a lot together. I am grateful. You are in very good hands. To the ongoing staff at Messiah who first welcomed me, Carmen Ode, Lynne Inman, Erv Steinle, you have been surrogate parents for me, and grandparents for my boys.  – I will never, never be able to thank you enough! God bless each of you and your great families!


At MLC in 2013 – 10 Funerals, 12 Baptisms, 4 Weddings, and 14 Sermons.
Career totals since ordination in 1994 – 233 Funerals, 194 Baptisms, 78 Weddings, and 510 Sermons.


Monday, October 21, 2013

"Strengthened His Hand"



(Homily prepared for PLU Chapel, October 21, 2013)
Text: 1 Samuel 23:15-18


When I heard that your theme in Chapel this month for "The Journey" is "Better Together" I knew that I wanted to share this amazing relationship between David and Saul's son, Jonathan. Of all the heroes of the Old Testament, Jonathan is probably one of the less known, and yet one of the most noble, upright, and faithful characters in all of the Old Testament. I'm not exaggerating.

Before he ever met David, Jonathan alone trusted God’s advice and defeated a whole Philistine garrison by himself (1 Sam. 14:6-15). Jonathan had guts; but his guts came from one simple source: faith. Jonathan trusted his life, he trusted his friends, even his life and his nation in God's hands.

As the Bible tells it, Jonathan first met David just after David had killed Goliath. Few people knew that the prophet Samuel had already anointed David to be the next king of Israel. All Jonathan knew at that time is that he immediately liked this young shepherd boy, loved him like a brother (1 Sam. 18:1).

1 Samuel 18, verse 3, says that: "Jonathan made a covenant with David." To seal that covenant, Jonathan gave David his robe, tunic, sword, bow, and belt. He dressed David in his clothes, into his life and place. By all human right of succession Jonathan was in line to be the next king of Israel, but here he was already bringing David into his father's house, dressing him in his princely clothes and weapons, and pledging his loyalty to David. 

King Saul would get jealous of David. Several times Saul tried to kill him, chased David into exile, but Jonathan kept his covenant and promise to David, even when it became clear that it meant he would have to give his crown to David.

So, later, when David was in exile, afraid, demoralized, there is this powerful scene in today’s lesson, 1 Samuel 23  - "...David was in the wilderness of Ziph at Horesh, and (verse 16) Jonathan, Saul's son, rose and went to David at Horesh and strengthened David’s hand in the LORD."

That's it, right there. For me it’s one of the most powerful images I've ever meditated on.  Jonathan went to David, found him in his wilderness, and "strengthened his hand in the LORD."

In what wildernesses do we find ourselves, that we might need someone to figuratively, or even actually grab hold of our hand and strengthen it in the LORD? How might you strengthen some one's hand in the LORD?

I've experienced it personally. My wife is amazing at this, at turning me around, and reminding me of my own faith in God, my own words, and her confidence in our ministry, direction, purpose and mission.  Every time, all the time, God keeps sending people to me that remind me of all the aces I hold in my hand: grace, forgiveness, salvation, faith and hope.  But also professional and spiritual counselors, fellow pastors, my friends. Heck even my dog, Shyla, seems to know exactly when my hand or face needs a good tongue washing.

I pray this for you, especially if you are struggling, after a death, or a break up, or guilt, exhaustion, or indecision, to send someone, or to let someone else strengthen your hand, to hold it, and lift it. When we grab hold and pray together, or when we send an uplifting text, when we worship and sing together, this is strengthening each other's hands, just as Jonathan did for David.

I want that kind of strengthening in the LORD for all of you from each other. Even more than from this message today, I pray you get it from each other. Or that you find ways to offer it… today and the next few days.

My congregation hears me say this a lot: God didn't make us just to save us. We are here for purpose. The fact that we are saved by grace frees us for that purpose -  since we’re okay ultimately and eternally, we can take care of each other, to look out for others, to strengthen each other's hand in the LORD.

There's an old native proverb that says: when the toe has a thorn in it, the whole body has to stoop to pluck it out. Or, better yet, as Captain Kirk once told Spock in one of the older Star Trek movies: "Sometimes the need of the one or the few, outweighs the needs of the many."

On any given day, we are not necessarily here because you or I need something, but because, on any given day, there is someone who needs us to be there for her, or him, to sing, or pray, or study, or live or hope, or to see the light at the end of their tunnel. We are here to strengthen each other's hands in the Lord. Let’s see whether God will keep his promises. I have a very strong suspicion that he will not let any down! In the meantime, if you need help now , please find it, and reach out to someone. God has already reached for you.

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Farewell to Thomas J. Hobbes

Farewell, feline friend, Thomas J. Hobbes. March, 1994 - Oct. 8, 2013. A wild cat's kitten born under a Philadelphian dumpster. A true "state of nature." A 19-year-old leviathan who scrapped against death, until it became his gentle friend. All you birds of paradise best beware: the grizzled grand-tabby is young again!

When he came into our lives, we weren't two years into our marriage. It was my last year of seminary. Pauline had started her graduate studies at Temple University. Since then, Hobbes was with us nearly half our lives, and several moves on each coast. Last night while I stroked his fur--for a moment--Hobbes seemed like a last link to those first beginnings. But, no. We're still here, scrapping against our own feral fears and losses.

Funny thing about life...and death: just when you think you've read a story from the start to its end, you turn a page and find a fresh chapter.


"I am about to take my last voyage, a great leap in the dark." - attrib. Thomas Hobbes.